Minggu, 29 Agustus 2010

Oh, your heart may long for love that is more near
So, when I'm gone these words will be here
To ease every fear
And dry up every tear
And make it very clear
I kiss you and I know
It is love from the first
Time I press my lips against yours
Thinking, "Oh, is it love?"

Jumat, 27 Agustus 2010

once again, be thankful :) because you are beautiful, and you are gorgeous just the way you are.

Rabu, 25 Agustus 2010

i read this article this morning and thought i should probably share here, read until finish :)

Love everyone and everything, without attaching strings and without judging them.

Have personal regard and respect for the people you meet. Treat them as equals and not inferior or superior in any way.

Work on the principle that everyone is, at heart, good. Assume that although they may do questionable things, the person underneath is fundamentally pure.

If you love someone unconditionally, then you cannot judge or blame them or find them bad.

Unconditional love works well in relationships too. If you do not put conditions on your partner, then you open the doors for a much more fulfilling and trusting relationship.

If universal unconditional love is difficult for you, start with your family and people you know. Or just try it in a single conversation.

Unconditional love means love without condition. It means giving love without expecting anything in return, including any reciprocal love.

This can be a difficult route to happiness, yet it is one where a great deal of happiness can be found. The more you can stretch your love, the happier you can be.

Unconditional love is nothing to do with romance. It does not want anything from the other person, though it may want everything for them. It is not about desire and possession; it is about appreciation and concern.

Unconditional love is something to do with parenting, yet parents want so much for and from their children that much of their relationship is far from conditional.

One principle, from the field of psychoanalysis is that we have an inner true self that is too vulnerable to expose, so we cover it up with the mask of a false self. Unconditional love is of the true self. Perhaps also it comes from the true self. In this way, it may be considered as the most real and truthful form of affection.

By showing you care about that inner core, you can get much closer to the person and connect with them in a more truthful and rewarding way.

get this article from : The neural basis of unconditional love. Psychiatry Research,172(2):93-8

here is my opinion : a good friend of mine told me that 'love may fade away, but the commitment stays.' but I disagree with this statement. at this point you might think it's right. but I think, the situation is people may get bored with 'the relationship' but not with the person. because I had figure it out, thing which make the commitment stays is an unconditional love. without unconditional love, you may not be able to stand thousand days with the same person, commitment has nothing to do with it. without that, people won't be 'really' with someone through the bad, they just want the good. trust me, all the successful marriages need an unconditional love to survive.

so, after you meet someone who you think a worth-loving one, why cant you give him/her an unconditional love for free?

Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous, love is never boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes. Love does not come to an end -1 Corinthians 13:4

Selasa, 24 Agustus 2010

God answers prayers in a way He knows what you truly deserve. Have faith and always be thankful :)

Senin, 23 Agustus 2010

Love is not blind; it is an extra eye, which shows us what is most worthy of regard.

thanks for giving me your extra eye and put a smile on my face all over the year. and, happy anniversary ♥

Kamis, 19 Agustus 2010

halo semua, ini earphone kesayangan saya. biarpun murah, suaranya suka sember, dan kadang2 gak bersahabat klo volumenya gede, tapi gue selalu pake tiap hari. colok ke itouch, ke laptop, ke tipi, ke idung klo lg gatel hahaha jk..

tapi..hari ini gw menemukan dia tidak berdaya. yang 'left' gak keluar suara lg dan gue amat sangat sedih. bukan karena bakal gak bisa beli lagi (ga mungkin bgt secara cuma 27rb) tp karena beberapa hari ini gue pake semena-mena kalo abis pake. gue taro di lantai, keinjek2 adek gue, taro di bawah bantal, keinjek2 bantal gue biarpun bantal gak punya kaki. trus bececeran dimana-mana kayak makanan ayam.. trus rusak gitu aja.

bikin gue berpikir..ini cuma barang doang loh tapi nyesek juga karena gue gak menjaganya baik-baik. kalo gue gak semena-mena, mungkin si earphone merah kesayangan ini bisa bertahan setaun lagi?tiga taun lagi?atau lebih?

NAH apalagi orang, yang notabene punya perasaan, bukan sekedar raga dan fisik doang. harus ekstra hati-hati dan bener-bener dijaga kalo masih pengen punya orang itu setaun lagi, tiga taun lagi, selamanya.

Sabtu, 14 Agustus 2010

It might not be the right time
I might not be the right one
But there's something about us I want to say
Cause there's something between us anyway

I might not be the right one
It might not be the right time
But there's something about us I've got to do
Some kind of secret I will share with you

I need you more than anything in my life
I want you more than anything in my life
I'll miss you more than anyone in my life
I love you more than anyone in my life

thank you to The CocaCola Company for inventing and keep producing Minute Maid, Pulpy Orange :)

Kamis, 12 Agustus 2010

Things that come for free are the most expensive in life.

such as : family, bestfriends, lover and their great love to us.
so : keep them wisely, dont ever lose it. be faithful to them.
in the end : you will always have these most expensive things forever.

Selasa, 10 Agustus 2010

this is Marry Me by Train. i tried to find a better video. but i think Train doesnt make any of official video for this track, but you should listen to this song :)

Minggu, 08 Agustus 2010

when someone have a faith on you why dont you have any to yourself?

ps:click on picture for bigger display;)

Jumat, 06 Agustus 2010

big hello :)

gue bukan orang yang religius. nggak selalu nyelipin kata Tuhan di setiap kalimat2 gue, sama sekali nggak suci, sering bgt ngomong kotor. full of flaws.. tapi...kalo soal faith, I DO really HAVE a big faith on my God.

gue gak pernah ketemu Tuhan. tubuh dan raganya gak eksis di depan mata gue. kalo bisa dibilang, sama orang yang eksis di depan kita aja, yang wujudnya beneran ada di hidup kita aja kita gak bisa segitu percayanya. tapi beda sama yang satu ini..belum pernah liat wujudnya sedikitpun, tapi gue selalu ngerasain gak sendirian di saat gue bener2 ngerasa down. tempat dimana gue bisa mengadu apapun.

a wise man once said, "if you wanna be successful in your life, you can't only rely on what you're doing so hard. but you should always involve God." and this is so true..dalam sebuah masalah, gue pernah nyoba berbagai cara utk nyelesain, but none works. akhirnya, gue memutuskan untuk berserah aja sama yg di atas, dan gak beberapa lama semua yang begitu rumit jadi beres.
semua kekhawatiran, semua ketakutan, semua masalah dan apapun, just share with your God, and I guarantee you'll get the answer, with His beautiful way, and at the very very right time.

so people, DO YOUR BEST and PRAY HARD! two simple steps to happiness :)