sela.

these are happiness according to me.

Lessons in Life

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's okay to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's okay to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come.

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you don't ask, you don't get.

49. Yield.

50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

I want to hug you.

terakhir ngecek tanggal, sekitar 22 September. itu berarti waktu udah nggak jalan lagi, tapi lari sprint, atau barangkali nempel di roket. sadar atau enggak udah mau masuk penghujung 2011 lagi. begitu banyak hari-hari yang uda kebuang, dan begitu banyak 2011's new year resolutions yang cuma jadi angan-angan belaka. ya kan?

dan yaampun gue baru sadar gue nulis blog lagi loh. setelah sekian lama cuma masuk-masukin video, foto, atau quotes. maaf atas kevakumannya selama ini. salahin kuliah yang ngerampas hampir 80% hidup gue sekarang, bahkan weekend aja tetep tidur cuma 3 jam. kasian yah..tapi abis ini akan nyoba nulis blog lagi secara rutin, mungkin sebulan sekali *apanya yang rutin ya?*

oke kembali ke hidup saya.

24 Agustus kemarin. baru aja 2 tahunan sama Chandra. kita nggak pernah jadiin setiap hari jadi itu spesial dan sama-sama santai soal ini. we always keep it simple. Chandra bawain kue kecil dengan angka 2 di atasnya, dan niup bareng-bareng di mobil sambil make a wish dan tukeran kado kecil-kecilan. dilanjutin makan malem kayak hari-hari biasa. nggak ada yang sangat spesial hari itu, semuanya sama spesialnya dengan 730 hari yang udah dilaluin bareng :)


sempet pergi ke Eropa bareng keluarga di libur lebaran kemarin. akhirnya pergi sekeluarga juga karena udah direncanain dari beberapa tahun lalu, tapi selalu gagal karena jadwal libur nggak pernah sama. akhirnya dengan sedikit kompromi untuk bolos dan nyicil banyak tugas, lebaran kemarin bisa pergi ke Eropa bareng keluarga. seneng banget dan pengen balik lagi..banget


oh iya kalo sempet, cek band yang ini ya. band folk dari indonesia namanya Backwood Sun, kalo uda denger lagunya pasti nggak nyangka ini band dari Indonesia. lagunya mirip fleet foxes dan bisa dibeli di iTunes store, atau di bawah label UK ini di bawah ini :

click me :)

oke deh uda jam 4:50 pagi belom tidur, kantong mata uda makin shiny. pamit dulu guys, see you in the next post! adios!